It is a known fact that a lot of marriages of celebrities are crashing every day, while many of those who are still keeping their own are not happy in these marriages.
These days,when couples step out together,they put up fake smile and acts as if all is well in their marriages,but back at home,they are living in pains and wish they never got married to their partners in the first instance.
It’s fast becoming a trend for young celebrity ladies to stay unhappy in their marriages and while the bold ones file for divorce.
Findings revealed that an average of one in every four celebrities drawn from both the entertainment industry and the world of business is either divorced or living out of wedlock. When they get married, it is always the talk of the town and a lot of people spend weeks replaying the events, but when it is time for divorce, they leave their fans with mouths agape over sordid tales and revelations relating to their marriages.
One major reason many celebrity women now divorce is because they got married for the wrong reasons.
According to an elderly married woman in the showbiz industry; the problem we ladies have is that we marry for wrong reasons and don’t do proper check on our spouse and some get carried away with certain things while thinking of settling down.
A lot of ladies are desperate to get married and even when they realize some wrong things about their spouse they ignore them hoping to work things out after marriage which more often than not, never happens.
A lot of people don’t end up getting married to persons whom they are truly in love with, but probably got married because he is rich or out of their own desperation.
Secondly, is the case of incompatibility in partners. To be candid, there are quite a lot of couples that can’t just do things in common.
A lot of men can’t stand the high-profile lifestyles of their celebrity wife. Such couple can be said to be incompatible.
Thirdly,it is caused by unrealistic expectations.It is unrealistic for anyone to expect marriage to be problem-free.Unrealistics expectation is a major cause of divorce.
Many couples become disillusioned when they discover that marriage is not really what they have envisioned it to be.
Also, some people unrealistically expect to get more out of marriage than they have put into it.
Blinded by romantic notions of matrimonial bliss, they tend to overlook the responsibility and hard work needed to build a happy marriage.
Then lastly, Infidelity leads to divorce and is probably the most damaging thing that can happen to a marriage. Unfortunately, it is also one of the most common problems a married couple will face. Findings revealed that 40% of celebrity women will participate in an extramarital affair at some point during their married life.
When a husband finds out that is wife cheated on him, it leads to emotional pain that often leads to divorce. Because such negative emotions are hard to put behind you and there is no way to ever rebuild trust again in the marriage.
Story by AKINNAGBE AKINTOMIDE/NIGERIAFILMS.COM