She’s my bestest friend. We’ve been friends since secondary school and her guy was my classmate in nursery school.
I didn’t know until when she introduced us. She’s been with him for 10yrs.
She’s 28 now and the guy 31. He’s your typical tall,dark and handsome guy and oh my he loves her to his marrow. Not into women,hardworking,down to earth and he’s got most of the qualities any woman would want from a guy.
My friend on the other hand is equally pretty and tall as well but she’s had quite a number of other guys she’s slept with.actually,6 of them. Each time the guy forgave her when he found out but he was this close to leaving her after he found out about the last one.
In their final year in school she got pregnant for him but had to flush it out as they were both not ready to take that step. Forgot to say they were mates in university in 2008 she took in again,was ready to keep it but the guy wasn’t.not because of finances for he was quite ok then but because he wasn’t sure if it was his.
My girlfriend had told him it was his because she took in November of that year while she had stopped all her flings because she almost lost grips on this guy due to all her atrocities. all efforts to convince her guy the pregnancy was his fell on deaf ears. She had to flush it again and I accompanied her.
They tried to patch things up. 4 months after,she left the country to go do her masters in the UK. But before she left the guy confessed to her he’d slept with a girl as he was under so much pressure from his friends to dump her and move on with some other girl. He said it was never the same without my friend.
He loved her too much and thank gracious they were back together again and my friend has never had some other guy in to her since then.she was away for three years and a year before her return,he popped the question which she happily said yes to.plan was for the wedding to hold november last year but as life would have it things took a dive for the guy.
She’s been the one supporting him since then while he on the other hand has been hustling seriously. Trying his hands everywhere and even looking for a job.something he never wanted to do because he’s this type of guy that believes in creating jobs for others. He was actually doing this.
They are both jobless now and their prospects are good tho. The thing is, all our friends are married except her and one other friend of ours. She’s currently so depressed and feels like a looser because she’s not married. Her guy’s elder sister wanted to sponsor their wedding but the guy completely turned her down that he won’t let anybody sponsor his wedding.
My friend completely loves this guy too and won’t leave him as she fears she won’t find anyone else to love her as this guy does and she leaving him now will paint her a bad person. Meanwhile, she’s so very much loved by the guys family even after she told them everything she did wrong and the girls family loves him as well. Apart from my friend’s history with men, she’s a very good girl-friendly,caring,she listens, generous and I truly believe she’s done with her old ways.
She wants a baby but the guy doesn’t due to his financial standing and promises that everything will be done my friends way once he lands a job. My friend’s is that she wants to them to get married with her guy’s sister sponsoring the wedding and then they can continue their hustle from there but her guy’s not buying.
Meanwhile,she’s got two guys wanting to marry her but turned them down.
Please will you advice her if she were your sister. Remember she’s 28yrs.