“Hello, all. I’ve been married to my husband for seven years and we have two kids. We’ve been together for 10 years, and I thought I knew him inside-out. We have a great marriage, so what I’ve discovered feels like a bomb has gone off.

He has an expensive new laptop that he doesn’t really like me using, so I always used our old one. I hardly ever go online and I don’t have ­Facebook or anything like that.

I went on his new laptop the other day, just to have a go, and I was ­horrified to discover he’s been ­visiting gáy pórn sites.

I was completely gobsmacked, but I haven’t confronted him simply because I can’t bear to hear what he has to say for himself.

I’m now t­orturing myself that he’s been gáy all along and that our marriage and our whole life is a sham. What should I do?”

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