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“I am afraid for my safety as I send this information to you. Please leave my e-mail address and name out of this. My purpose of writing is to get people’s opinion on what to do.
“I came to Lagos about three months ago to stay my uncle and his , who’s an Ibo woman. By the way my uncle is from Edo State and marriage is about four years without kids. In the last week of August my bros travelled to the North on official business and something happened in his .
“I came back that day because I could not meet up a job appointment in Igando area due to heavy traffic. I was reluctant to return home since I had just left but I couldn’t think of a better place to go so I headed home. On getting to our compound, I didn’t find the at his post and I was even angry because of the security risk of him leaving the gate open like that.
“But something got me worried when I saw the gate man’s sandals right inside our sitting room. I just told myself that something is going on between my uncle’s wife and this dirty boy. I was right, when I moved close to the window of my uncle’s bedroom I started hearing screams of sexual pleasure from his wife. I tried to peep into the room but it was difficult because of the protector.
“So, I summoned courage and walk to the door as if I wanted to tell my uncle’s wife that I was back. I opened the door and caught the adulterous woman red-handed under the dirty gate man (boy). Sadly, the gate man was already ejaculating so he couldn’t get up immediately, it took him few seconds to jump off and grab his clothes.


“I simply walked away and returned to the sitting room, pretending to be watching a programme on the TV. Few minutes later my uncle’s wife joined me and started begging that it would not happen again. I didn’t say a word but when she kept pressing I said ok I’ve heard. Later she brought food for me but I refused it and since then she has been putting pressure on me.
“The unfortunate thing is now she even wants me to sleep with her as an assurance that I wont tell my uncle, always coming to my room half unclad. Because of this I’ve not eating in the house in the last one week, I’m almost going broke already.
“My uncle may be back next week. I will like people with more experience to tell me what to do when he comes back. Should I tell my uncle the kind of wife he married or quietly move out?
My Uncle is a Nice Guy, but who long will he leave with this situation”. – via Naij.

Comments

  1. am so sorry 2 say dis..maybe your uncle can gt her pregnant….dat y she slept with de gate man or your uncle even knw abt it.1st of try nd talk 2 her abt it nd listen 2 what she got 2 say abt it nd why did she have 2 do it.if she doesn't ve any gud reason.den u can tell your uncle abt it.be-care….

  2. Even at all the husband cannot get the wife pregnant, this should not occur near here. Good thing is that they were caught, if not, she get pregnant and tell the husband shes pregnant for him.
    Now that were caught, that's where the problem now begin so long the guest is still living in the same roof.

    1. She will mount pressure to kick him out from the house, or try to force him to sleep with her. If he fall. He is them doomed.

    2. If he does not succumb to her sexual plea, she may seek to get rid of him at all course ie jazz, or poison to silence the ordeal forever.

    3. If he finds other place to go, my suggestion is to take a leave immediately as there could never be trust again and to talk with his woman, reason of his leaving and warn her to desist from the act.

    On the other, it is better to let the Uncle know about, after all, he is his uncle before something more serious happens and it might be too late to say "had I know, if I had tell him", I would have protected him".

    It is better to put devil to shame rather to collaborate it. The truth will prevail one day anyway, but good things would have destroyed. He should take courage and let the cat out of the cage or else.

    Maybe his uncle have his own hidden agenda as well. Telling him might make him repent as well. But if he did not know anything, he will keep cheating and storm all blames on the wife.

  3. well life is a game. on that case, two things involve;.
    what make her not be pregnant, is she looking for away to get pregnant?
    if this

  4. To me one thing I need to confirm is to fine out reason for the act, how long, all this result to reaction so that at the end you will not be a vi term of your own goodness.

  5. but you were too fast to let them know you were washing, you should try to keep off for some time to get result that can defend it self. but be careful, two things are involve.

  6. My brother, if u ask for my opinion I will tell you to keep it to yourself for now, its going to be your word against her and your uncle will believe her I tell u nd u will end up being the bad guy who tryd to ruin his marraige because d lady doesn't av a child for him. Also pls move out of that house so that d lady will not poison u to protect her secret.U dnt av any evidence like pictures or video recording to support your accusations.BE CAREFUL.

  7. I cannot say why she cant get pregnant at first pleac cause is between her and her husband. if she can sleep with the gate man who knows how many man she been sleep with you need to tell your uncle what happened and what did you see the day there alot of sicks out there she get sick and give to your uncle. God with you trut all this.